DEALING WITH OTHER PEOPLE’S OPINION ABOUT YOU

Right from the moment that we were born we already have a purpose. We are capable of doing everything even though it may seem impossible to us. Don’t be discouraged by other people’s opinions about you and don’t let it get into you. Doubting yourself just because of someone else judgment isn’t good but knowing to understand constructive criticism and right judgment would be a huge help for us to learn from others and grow from it.

Visualize your best self and become the person that you wanted to become. It may sound cliché but the quote “life is short” is true. Who knows what would happen tomorrow? Only God knows. Despite the pandemic, our problems, the struggles, and the shortcomings that we had and faced - we’ve come too far. We’ve reached this far. Others may not see what we’ve been through yet God saw us and stays by our side in the long run.

The world won’t lose any reason for us to be in a bad mood and it’s up to us on how to deal with it. We are not a sponge so don’t absorb everything you hear and see. Don’t let negativity run inside you. Yes, it isn’t easy but start working on it with yourself. Ask yourself if it is beneficial for you to let other people’s words affect you. I am currently working on obeying my own rule now. I call it “add or subtract.” This ruling of mine helps me which opinion might benefit me or tear me apart. I add opinions that I think would help me grow as a person and subtract opinions that don’t matter at all.

Always remember to look for every individual’s kindness and greatness. See beneath the skin and dance along with the beauty of everything. Most especially, bloom with God’s grace.

rj.a.a